Why do i NEVER get the guy!!!?

i have liked many guys before, i have gotten s ooo freakin' close to being with them, but ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS at the last minute.....someone takes them away, i havent had a ******* boy freind yet, not even my first kiss, i am only 14 but still, what the **** is up with this, i am pretty(not bragging), have a good personality, very kind, and i am outgoing....WHY ME!! WHY CANT I GET THE ****** GUY